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Written by the team at The Baby Element Clinic, Wilmslow. Last updated: 2 February 2025.
Is your baby suddenly refusing the bottle or breast? You’re not alone. A feeding aversion, also known as a bottle aversion or nursing strike, is a common and deeply stressful experience for parents. This guide will help you understand the signs of a feeding aversion, uncover the reasons why your baby is refusing to eat, and provide actionable steps towards making feeding time peaceful and positive again.
A feeding aversion can feel like it appeared overnight, turning a calm routine into a battle. Your baby might not be rejecting you, but rather communicating an issue with the feeding process itself. Look for these common signs of bottle aversion or a nursing strike:
Understanding the “why” behind the refusal is the first step toward finding a solution. It’s rarely one single thing, but often stems from a baby associating feeding with something negative or uncomfortable.
There are two common pathways this develops:
The most crucial thing to consider is that feeding issues with breast refusal or bottle aversion is a fixable problem, and it is not a reflection of your parenting.
You have not failed. The key to resolving a feeding aversion is to remove all pressure and rebuild trust. Your goal is to help your baby learn that feeding can be a comfortable, safe, and enjoyable experience again.
While specific strategies depend on the root cause of the aversion or refusal to feed, the foundation of recovery is creating a low-pressure, responsive feeding environment alongside addressing the root cause or causes.
Viewing the issues of feeding aversion as a communication breakdown, not a behavioural issue, is essential.
Trying to solve a feeding aversion on your own can be incredibly isolating. The conflicting advice online can leave you feeling more confused and overwhelmed. This is where professional support makes all the difference.
As an IBCLC (International Board-Certified Lactation Consultant)
and Infant Feeding Specialist, my role is to work with you to identify the specific root cause of your baby’s aversion. Together, we can create a gentle,
customised plan to rebuild your baby’s trust in feeding and restore your own confidence.
If you recognise your story in this article and are ready for a clear path forward, book a Quick Chat to see how we can get feeding back on track together.